Did you know just 8% of people achieve their New Year’s resolutions?
Shocking, isn’t it?
That’s why I am dedicating this month to YOUR success! With the right steps and tools you can do it!! YES!!
Why are the right tools important? Because the research of Scranton University says despite our good intentions only a tiny fraction of us keep our resolutions.
I believe it – before learning how to set goals successfully I was in that 92% where goals fell by the wayside within the first month.
What about you? How are you doing with your New Year’s goals? Are you easily staying on track or are you finding distractions derailing you?
If you find yourself in the latter you’re not alone and you’ll love today’s tool to help you stay connected to your desire. (If you missed week 1 and 2’s steps you can go here to learn more)
Acting “As If” is the third step and key to creating a future that is outside your current reality. Imagine you are already the person living the life you vision. Feel it deeply in your soul. Live as though you already have what you desire. This moves molecules!!!
Why is this important for you?
Because, right now there is a gap between the woman you are being today and the woman who is living your dream. She behaves and thinks differently – so in order to close that gap you want to get in harmony with her and that means becoming her or living “as if”.
For example – say you are single, independent and used to being alone but you want a deeply loving relationship. There is a gap in the way you are living and the life you want. To close the gap you will need to switch out the identity of being alone with an identity of being in a relationship – you’ll need to act “as if” you’re already living the delicious future of your dreams. See it, feel it, taste it!
For example you could start shaking things up by imagining yourself with an wedding ring on your finger. Notice how it feels. How happy are you? Can you feel your partner’s hand in yours? What are your senses saying? Take this experience to the core of your being. When you go to the grocery store imagine you are shopping for two instead of one. Set the table for two, clear out space in your closet and bathroom, put space in your calendar for romantic vacations together.
In other words, ground it into your foundational make-up!
When you want to create a future that’s outside your current reality you have to consistently act “as if” you are already that person with the life you desire in a very solid way. Get outrageously detailed about the ways you will change your life to match the future you are committed to creating.
To manifest your desires and goals follow these 3 steps:
1) Determine new behavioral patterns to adopt to support your desires. What new actions and routines will you put in place? Will you join an activity club, take a new class, join a gym? Smile and make eye contact more?
2) Decide how you want to show up and present to others letting your most charismatic magnificent Self flow out to the world. Will you let go of being in your head and analyzing everything to allow your feminine flow to lead instead?
3) Choose how you will spend your time – are you willing to get out of busy mode and create more space for someone to be in your life? Will you spend time with loving couples who model what you want? Will you make time for fun?
Put these steps into practice and you will create the momentum to shift your life. Remember, as you are imagining, you are feeling deeply in your body. The most important thing to connect to is WHO YOU ARE BEING in this life. See your sparkling Self gracing the world, your vivacious essence unleashing, your sensuality soaring! You can do this! I believe in you!